Over the years I have gotten more and more overwhelmed with how much stuff I own, and have been working on decluttering and such, but I definitely am not anywhere close to where I want to be. When I read My Year of No Shopping in the New York Times I decided that yes, that is what I needed in 2018.
When you read the article, you can see that she mostly talks about clothes, handbags and makeup, not about essentials like food. Still it resonated with me, and I decided that I loved her idea and would start it this year with my own arbitrary rules. Since it is not as much a rulebook, but a philosophy.
It fits in my philosophy of ‘Less Things, More People, More Travel!’ Two examples of today: I returned an LL Bean sweater which had issues ( I love their return policy ) and instead of replacing it with the same or a different sweater, I took the money and applied it towards debt. Then we went to a jewelry store which had a wicked sale and I saw many items that I drooled over for a moment until catching myself. ‘Yes, I can save $600, but I don’t need or even want to spend $300.’ It felt good.
I still shop for groceries and home goods, but it is nice not to be swayed by a good sale. I know I too often have fallen for the ‘Wow, this is such a steal’ reasoning instead of the ‘Nope, don’t need it, I don’t care if I want it.’ Instead I envision the Trevi Fountain in Rome and how we threw in coins so we would return. I’d much rather spend my money that way!
Next step is going through my stuff at home and getting rid of more and more of them.