We had been discussing ways to save money, and one of the obvious ways would be to become a one-car family. It saves on car maintenance, gas, insurance, registration fees, lots of money not spent. But as is often the case, we suffered from inertia and never really did anything about it.
One of our daughters helped us out by getting into a car accident due to pea soup dense fog. She was ok, the car wasn’t. Heck, the car got hit TWICE before the other driver realized she should put it into park :p Anyway to make a long story short, the damage was extensive enough (or the car repair place charged enough) to get the car totaled. Ouch.
The good thing is that we were already contemplating getting rid of a car, so the universe helped us out there.
The bad thing is that we had two cars, a 2002 one and a 2010 one and the 2010 one got totaled.
The good thing is that Tom is more comfortable in the 2002 car.
The bad thing is that we just got new winter tires and a rim on the 2010 Mazda.
The good thing is that it is cheaper to insure an old car.
The bad thing is that the 2010 car heated up much faster in the winter and had better a/c in the summer.
The good thing is that the deductible was waved, so we get a reasonably nice chunk of money, more than we would have gotten selling it.
The summary is: it is all good.
I am a bit nostalgic about it, since this is the first car I got all for myself after my divorce, my first ever car loan 🙂
The car drove us many places. I took the kids to Montreal a number of times and we had lots of fun. I took the kids to Washington DC, visiting friends on the way.
I drove my kids and their friends all over New England chasing geocache after geocache.
I took eleven kids to the Boston Zoo and had a blast.
We traveled to Washington DC and enjoyed our country’s history.
Tom and I took four teens to New York City and watched Les Miserables.
All the memories remain!
We love going out to eat, but as you all know, it can add up. Part of our quest for financial independence is getting out of debt and saving money, and skipping some nights out seems a good way to do that.
Of course it is not always trivial to come up with meals, but one of our quick and easy goto’s is mussels. Friday afternoon we were shopping and I asked my husband, what shall we have for dinner tonight? We were just walking past the fish food counter in the supermarket ( I know how to properly time my questions 🙂 so we considered what fishy choices were on sale. It didn’t take long to agree on mussels, since it had been a while since we made them.
What I like about mussels is that there are so many ways to make them, and you can just use what you have or you can buy some curry paste (Thai Kitchen Green Curry Paste) as we did this time. We also picked up a can of coconut milk.
At home I started rice in the rice cooker so that I could ignore it, and Tom get everything ready to steam some broccoli. I perused the fridge and decided on onions, celery, garlic and carrots, but you can choose whatever you have on hand. Melted a good chunk of butter, sautéed the veggies for a while, then added half of the curry paste, some white wine and the coconut milk. Meanwhile we had washed the muscles and drained them. Added the mussels, brought everything to a boil, turned down the heat to medium and covered the mixture. When I opened it after ten minutes, all the mussels had opened and looked delectable. Steamed the broccoli and we were ready to eat.
Quick and easy meal and it tasted excellent. You can customize it to whatever you have on hand, beer instead of wine, bouillon instead of either, your choice of vegetables, endless possibilities. We enjoyed the satisfaction that we spent only a fraction of the money we would have spent in a restaurant.
Over the years I have gotten more and more overwhelmed with how much stuff I own, and have been working on decluttering and such, but I definitely am not anywhere close to where I want to be. When I read My Year of No Shopping in the New York Times I decided that yes, that is what I needed in 2018.
When you read the article, you can see that she mostly talks about clothes, handbags and makeup, not about essentials like food. Still it resonated with me, and I decided that I loved her idea and would start it this year with my own arbitrary rules. Since it is not as much a rulebook, but a philosophy.
It fits in my philosophy of ‘Less Things, More People, More Travel!’ Two examples of today: I returned an LL Bean sweater which had issues ( I love their return policy ) and instead of replacing it with the same or a different sweater, I took the money and applied it towards debt. Then we went to a jewelry store which had a wicked sale and I saw many items that I drooled over for a moment until catching myself. ‘Yes, I can save $600, but I don’t need or even want to spend $300.’ It felt good.
I still shop for groceries and home goods, but it is nice not to be swayed by a good sale. I know I too often have fallen for the ‘Wow, this is such a steal’ reasoning instead of the ‘Nope, don’t need it, I don’t care if I want it.’ Instead I envision the Trevi Fountain in Rome and how we threw in coins so we would return. I’d much rather spend my money that way!
Next step is going through my stuff at home and getting rid of more and more of them.